What do you do when someone you care about… okay, let me try this again.
I have a two friends (all 3 of us being females) who were friends before one friend introduced me to the other. Well those two friends got into a fight and the one friend comes over to my place for previous plans (that I did not even make) and the other one asks if they can come over, but we say no because we have a house full and that we would hang out with that friend all day the next day. Well the friend that didn’t come (how about we give this friend the title of THING 1) got pissed and started accusing us, Thing 2 and my bf and I, of conspiring negative feelings and actions behind their back. Just because we told Thing 1 that they couldn’t come over for the night. The other friend that did come over (THING 2) and all other parties present in my home, agree that Thing 1 is being ridiculous and that it will blow over. Well then Thing 1 comes in and repetitively attacks and twists everything you say, where all you wanted to tell them is that you love them and sorry they couldn’t come over that night, but there are other nights. Now Thing 1 has insulted my beliefs and will not stop harassing me (now, Thing 1 has decided that they wanted to text everything because they didn’t want to talk face to face with us like adults) and is now saying that we have no regards for their feelings and said i’m brushing it under the rug because I don’t want to text about it anymore. I seriously gave up on reading these because all they did was point fingers and accuse me of things that they’re making up as the argument progresses… this person didn’t even stop to think that maybe they were being a little bit ridiculous? Keep in mind that Thing 1 is also 5 years older than me and i’m the one not taking the mature approach? Thing 1 is extremely emotional and very strongly passionate.. you can understand how overwhelming this can be sometimes. No matter what I say to Thing 1, they just twist it and turn it back on me and continues to stab me relentlessly with accusations and completely made up shit. It’s driving me up the wall.
I’m not sure what to do at this point to mend the friendship; I want to wait until they apologize for being rude and insulting, but I know Thing 1 is probably too proud to even come and talk to my face like an adult. It sounds to me like Thing 1 is just jealous because of the relationship that has grown between Thing 2 and I. But I don’t feel like anything I say at this point will even register in their brain.
You don’t have to respond;; I really just needed somewhere to vent.
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